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Lesson 1
Sincerity in Obedience,
Insincerity in Performing the Good Deeds,
and Priding Oneself in Obeying All
ah


 

Sincerity (Ikhlas): Sincerity in obeying Allah is among the obligations of the heart. It is also one of the good characteristics.

 

Sincerity in obeying Allah is doing the good deeds for the sake of Allah only. It is not doing them seeking the praise and respect of people. Allah made sincerity a condition for the acceptance of the good deeds.

 

Allah, ta^ala, said in the Qur’an:

فَمَن كَانَ يَرْجُو لِقَاء رَبِّهِ فَلْيَعْمَلْ عَمَلًا صَالِحًا وَلَا يُشْرِكْ بِعِبَادَةِ رَبِّهِ أَحَدًا

 

Faman kana yarju liqa’a Rabbihi falya^mal ^amalan salihaw wa la yushrik bi^ibadati Rabbihi ahada.

Ayah 110 of Suratul-Kahf means: {Let the one who believes in the Day of Judgment do good deeds without seeking the praise of the people by doing so.}

 

The sincere person is the one who performs the good deeds—be it praying, fasting, Hajj, Zakah, or reciting Qur’an—seeking the reward from Allah, and not for the sake of people praising and mentioning him. The one who is praying should be performing obedience for the sake of Allah only, not so that the people will say: “So and so prays, he does not miss any obligation.” Also the one who is fasting should be fasting for the sake of Allah only. The same applies to, the case of the one who is giving Zakah, sadaqah, reciting the Qur’an, or anyone who is performing a good deed.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

إِنَّ اللهَ يُحِبُّ أَحَدَكُمْ إِذا عَمِلَ عَمَلاً أَنْ يُتْقِنَهُ، قِيلَ: وَمَا إِتْقَانُهُ يَا رَسُولَ الله؟ قَالَ: "يُخْلِصُهُ مِنَ الرِّيَاءِ وَالْبِدْعَة"

 

Innallaha yuhibbu ahadakum idha ^amila ^amalan ay yutqinah. Someone said: “Wa ma itqanuhu ya Rasulallah.” The Prophet said: “Yukhlisuhu minar-riya’i wal-bid^ah.”

Which means: “Certainly, Allah loves for one of you when performing a deed to perform it properly.” Someone said: “How is that, O Messenger of Allah?” He replied: “One does it only for the sake of God and according to the rules of the Religion.” (Narrated by As-Suyutiyy.)

 

Riya' (Insincerity): Is the opposite of sincerity. It is doing the good deeds, such as fasting, for the praise of the people and their admiration.

 

Insincerity nullifies the reward of the deed. The performer of any deed that is done with insincerity receives no reward, whether it was done for the praise of people only or coupled with seeking the reward. Moreover, such a person commits an enormous sin.

 

Priding oneself for obeying Allah: After performing certain types of obedience, some people feel conceitedly proud of these actions. They feel they have a high status because of performing these actions, forgetting that Allah is the One Who inspired and enabled them to do these good deeds.

 

Insincerity and priding oneself for obeying Allah are two sins of the heart. They are also two bad characteristics that the pubescent person must avoid. One should be sincere while obeying Allah to earn the reward from Allah.

 

 

Questions:

1.                 What is meant by sincerity in obeying Allah?

2.                 What is the proof from the Qur’an that sincerity is a condition for the acceptance of the good deeds?

3.                 Who is the sincere person?

4.                 State a hadith that encourages sincerity and leaving out insincerity in the obedience?

5.                 What is meant by insincerity? Will one receive reward for a deed he does seeking both the reward from Allah and the praise of the people?

6.                 What does priding oneself for obeying Allah mean?


Lesson 2
Patience and Subjugating Oneself to Allah


 

Allah, ta^ala, said in the Qur’an

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُواْ اسْتَعِينُواْ بِالصَّبْرِ وَالصَّلاَةِ إِنَّ اللّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ

 

Ista^inu bis-sabri was-Salati innallaha ma^as-sabirin.

Ayah 153 of Suratul-Baqarah means: {Strengthen yourselves by patience and prayer, and know that God supports the patient people.}

 

Patience is among the obligations of the heart. It is of three kinds:

1-     Patience in performing what Allah made obligatory.

2-     Patience in avoiding what Allah made unlawful.

3-     Patience with hardships and calamities.

 

Patience in performing the obligations: is forcing oneself to perform the obligations like praying on time, fasting the month of Ramadan, attending the circles of knowledge to learn the Islamic obligatory knowledge, and other obligations, even if one feels lazy to do them.

 

Patience in avoiding what Allah made unlawful: is restraining oneself from committing the sins. It takes a lot of effort to stop oneself from committing the unlawful, like leaving out the prayer, drinking alcohol, stealing, and other unlawful matters. It is one’s nature to lean towards laziness and easy coming pleasures, even if they are unlawful.

 

Patience with hardships and calamities: is being patient—seeking the reward from God—with what bothers one, such as pain, hardship, poverty, sadness, or other afflictions that befall the person in this life, because this world is a place of calamities, tests, and a workplace, while the Hereafter is the place for judgment. For this type of patience to take place, one needs not to act or talk in a way that reflects one’s impatience.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

إِنَّ اللهَ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ يَقُولُ: إِذا ابْتَلَيْتُ عَبْدِي بِحَبِيبَتَيْهِ فَصَبَرَ عَوَّضْتُهُ مِنْهُمَا الْجَنَّةَ.

 

Innallaha ^azza wa jalla yaqul: idha-btalaytu ^abdiya bihabibatayhi fasabara ^awwadtuhu minhumal-Jannah.

Which means: “If Allah inflicts on someone the calamity of losing one’s sight and one is patient with it, then the reward of one’s patience will be Paradise.” (Narrated by al-Bukhariyy.)

Subjugating oneself to Allah: It is obligatory upon the pubescent person to refrain from objecting to Allah and to be content with Allah's Decree and Will. Subjugating oneself to Allah is among the obligations of the heart. Objecting to Allah is a blasphemous act. Many people fall into blasphemy because they do not subjugate themselves to Allah, rather, they object to Him.

The Muslim should be patient and should make an effort to train oneself in patience to get used to it. One should also rely on Allah in all one’s matters.

Questions:

1.                 State an ayah from the Qur’an that points to the merit of patience.

2.                 Which type of obligation is patience?

3.                 List the types of patience.

4.                 What does it mean to be patient with performing the obligations?

5.                 What does it mean to be patient with avoiding what Allah made unlawful?

6.                 What does it mean to be patient with hardships and calamities?

7.                 Give a hadith that shows the reward of the one who lost his sight.

8.                 Among the obligations of the heart is subjugating oneself to Allah. What does this mean?


Lesson 3
Loving Allah and His Messenger


Love and hate are among the actions of the heart. It is obligatory upon the pubescent person to use these two emotions in accordance with the rules of the Religion. One must love Allah and what is in accordance with the rules of Islam. Also, one must hate the devil and what he whispers of sinful matters.

1-    Loving Allah and His Messenger, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam: The pubescent person is obligated to love Allah, His Qur’an, and His Prophet. This is done by following the orders of Islam and avoiding its unlawful matters.

Allah, ta^ala said:

قُلْ إِنْ كُنْتُمْ تُحِبُّونَ اللهَ فَاتَّبِعُونِي يُحْبِبْكُمُ اللهُ

Qul in kuntum tuhibbun-allaha fattabi^uni yuhbibkum-ullah.

Ayah 31 of Suratu Al ^Imran means: {Say (O Muhammad): If you love Allah, then follow me, and Allah will love you.}

This is an essential part of believing in Allah, what He revealed, and believing in the Prophet and what he brought. The doubt in Allah, on the other hand, His Qur’an, or His Messenger is among the sins of the heart. In fact it is blasphemy, which takes one out of the Religion of Islam.

 

2-    Loving the companions, relatives (Al) of the Prophet, and the pious Muslims: Among the obligations of the heart is loving the Companions, relatives (Al) of the Prophet and the pious Muslims. Failing to love them is one of the sins of the heart. Mocking or cursing them is among the sins of the tongue.

The Companions: They are the Companions of the Prophet. They supported the Religion of Allah and spread it, especially the earlier ones who immigrated with the Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, and those who received him in Madinah. The Companions are the people who met the Prophet during his life and believed in him, whether they knew him for a long or a short time, as long as they died on the correct belief.

 

The Relatives (Al) of the Prophet: This term is given to the wives of the Prophet such as Khadijah and ^A’ishah. It also refers to his Muslim relatives, like Hamzah, al-^Abbas, ^Aliyy, al-Hasan, al-Husayn, and their mother Fatimah (may Allah raise all their ranks). Loving the Al of the Prophet is an obligation because of the merit they have. If one means by the term “Al” the God-fearing pious people, which is one of its meanings, then loving them is an obligation, because they are beloved to Allah due to their ideal behavior in obeying Allah.

The Pious Muslims: They are the ones who have performed all the obligations and avoided all the sins. Among these categories are the scholars, and the highly righteous Muslims.

3-    Hating the Devil and Sins: Among what is also obligatory on the heart is hating the devil and the sins. Also, one must regret performing the sins.

Questions:

1.                 List some of what a Muslim is obligated to love.

2.                 State from the Qur’an the proof that an indication of a Muslim’s love of Allah is his rightly following the Prophet.

3.                 Who are the Companions? Why is it obligatory to love them?

4.                 Who are the Al? Why is it obligatory to love them?

5.                 Who are the pious Muslims?

6.                 List some of what a Muslim is obligated to hate?


Lesson 4
Arrogance, Enmity, and Envy

Arrogance and having enmity for and envy of Muslims are all sins of the heart. These are bad attributes of which many people are unaware, because they do not know what they are or how to avoid them.

 

1-    Arrogance: It is to reject the truth and to look down on people.

The Prophet, may God raise his rank, said:

الْكِبْرُ بَطْرُ الْحَقِّ وَغَمْطُ النَّاسِ

Al-kibru batarul-haqqi wa ghamtun-nas.

Which means: “Arrogance is rejecting the truth and looking down on others.” (Related by Muslim.)

What is understood from this hadith is that arrogance is rejecting what one knows is right, because the person saying it is young, poor, a student, or weak. Looking down on people is like being arrogant with a poor person, because he is poor. Thus, the arrogant refuses to speak with him or talks to him in a haughty way.

 

2-    Enmity: It is to hate a Muslim, to accept this feeling, and to act in accordance with this feeling.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

مَنْ أَرَادَ أَنْ يُزَحْزَحَ عَنِ النَّارِ وَيُدْخَلَ الْجَنَّةَ فَلْتَأْتِهِ مَنِيَّتُهُ وَهُوَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الآخِرِ وَلْيَأْتِ إِلَى النَّاسِ بِمَا يُحِبُّ أَنْ يُؤْتَى إِلَيْهِ.

 

Man arada ay yuzahzaha ^anin-Nari wa yudkhalal-Jannata, falta’tihi maniyyatuhu wa huwa yu’minu billahi wal yawmil-akhiri, wal ya’ti ilan-nasi bima yuhibbu ay yu’ta ilayh.

Which means: “He who wishes to be moved away from Hellfire, and be admitted into Paradise, let him die believing in Allah and the Day of Judgment, and let him treat people in the way which he would like to be treated.” (Related by Ibn Hibban and al-Bayhaqiyy.)

 

3-    Envy: It is to hate and feel bitter about the endowment of Allah on a Muslim, whether it be worldly or religious, and to wish that it would be taken from that Muslim and would be bestowed upon oneself. This is a sin only if one does not hate this feeling and if one acts in accordance with it. If one hates the envy one feels, and does not act accordingly, then it is not a sin.

Questions:

1.                 What is arrogance?

2.                 State a hadith from the Prophet that urges us to avoid arrogance. Who related it?

3.                 What does looking down on people mean?

4.                 What does having enmity mean?

5.                 Give a hadith that urges us to treat people well.

6.                 What is envy? When is it considered a sin?
 


Lesson 5
Gossip, Fabrication, and Talebearing

 

Allah, ta^ala, said in the Qur’an:

مَا يَلْفِظُ مِن قَوْلٍ إِلَّا لَدَيْهِ رَقِيبٌ عَتِيدٌ

Ma yalfidhu min qawlin illa ladayhi Raqibun ^Atid.

Ayah 8 of Surat Qaf means: {Whatever one says, be it good or evil, two angels Raqib and ^Atid write it.} The wise person should be keen to protect his tongue from everything that is evil.

Among what is evil is: gossip (ghibah), fabrication (buhtan), and talebearing (namimah). These three (3) matters are among the sins of the tongue and are bad habits.

It is confirmed that one of the Companions addressed his tongue by saying:

يَا لِسَانُ قُلْ خَيْراً تَغْنَمْ وَاسْكُتْ عَنْ شَرٍّ تَسْلَمْ مِنْ قَبْلِ أَنْ تَنْدَمَ، إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "أَكْثَرُ خَطَايَا ابْنِ آدَمَ مِنْ لِسَانِهِ"

 

Ya lisanu qul khayran taghnam waskut ^an sharrin taslam min qabli an tandam. Inni sami^tu Rasulallahi, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, yaqul: Aktharu khatayabni Adama mil-lisanih.

Which means: “O tongue, say what is good and you will gain, and keep silent about what is bad before you regret it. I heard the Messenger of Allah saying: ‘Most of the human’s sins are from his tongue.’ ” Related by at-Tabaraniyy.

 

1-    Gossip (Ghibah): Means to mention a matter related to a Muslim in his absence in a way that he hates. If a Muslim person was short, and hated for that to be said about him, and someone else said in his absence, so and so is short, then this is considered among the unlawful gossip that the Prophet prohibited.

Allah, ta^ala, said in the Qur’an:

وَلَا يَغْتَب بَّعْضُكُم بَعْضًا

Wa la yaghtab ba^dukum ba^da.

Ayah 12 of Suratul-Hujurat means: {Do not make gossip against one another.}

 

2-    Fabrication (Buhtan): This is mentioning untrue matters that a Muslim hates to be mentioned about him. It is more sinful than gossip.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said, addressing some of the Companions:

"أَتَدْرُونَ مَا الْغِيبَةُ؟" قَالُوا: اللهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ، قَالَ: "ذِكْرُكَ أَخَاكَ بِمَا يَكْرَهُ"، قِيلَ: أَفَرَأَيْتَ إِنْ كَانَ فِي أَخِي مَا أَقُولُ؟ قَالَ: "إِنْ كَانَ فِيهِ مَا تَقُولُ فَقَدِ اغْتَبْتَهُ وَإِنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ فِيهِ فَقَدْ بَهَتَّهُ"

 

Which means: “Do you know what gossip is?” They said: “Allah and His Messenger know best.” He said: “Mentioning your Muslim brother with what he hates.” It was said: “What if what I said was true?” The Prophet said: “If it was true, then you have committed gossip about him. However, if it was untrue, then you have committed buhtan against him.” (Related by Muslim.)

The one who listens to the prohibited gossip has committed one of the sins of the ear. One must forbid people to gossip.

 

3-    Talebearing (Namimah): It is relating the words of one person to another with the intent of making trouble between them. An example of this is relating inciting words to two people who like each other, with the intent of breaking them up or making them hate each other.

Allah, ta^ala, said in the Qur’an:     

هَمَّازٍ مَّشَّاء بِنَمِيمٍ

 

Hammazim mashsha’im binamim.

Ayah 11 of Suratul-Qalam refers to dispraising the person who slanders others and spreads talebearing.

 

The Prophet of Allah, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

لاَ يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ قَتَّاتٌ

La yadkhulul-Jannata qattat.

 

Qattat is a term for the one who practices talebearing. This hadith means that he will not be among the first people to enter Paradise; rather, the qattat will enter it after receiving the punishment that he deserves in Hellfire.
 

Questions:

1.                 State an ayah that orders us to protect our tongues.

2.                 List three matters from which one is obligated to protect his tongue.

3.                 Give what was related from one of the Companions about protecting one’s tongue.

4.                 What is gossip? Give an example.

5.                 What is the proof from the Qur’an that gossip is unlawful?

6.                 What is fabrication? What is the proof from a hadith that it is unlawful?

7.                 Which is more sinful: gossip (ghibah) or talebearing (buhtan)?

8.                 What is tale bearing? What is the proof from the Qur’an that it is unlawful?

9.                 Give a hadith that prohibits us from tale bearing? What does it mean?

 


Lesson 6
Lying


 

Lying is among the sins of the heart. It is to utter false information while knowing that what one is saying is not the truth. It is sinful (haram) whether done seriously or jokingly.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

لاَ يَصْلُحُ الْكَذِبُ فِي جِدٍّ وَلاَ فِي هَزْلٍ

La yasluhul-kadhibu fi jiddiw wala fi hazl.

Which means: “Lying is not good, whether in seriousness or joking.” (Related by al-Bayhaqiyy.)

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, also said:

إِيَّاكَ وَالْكَذِبَ فَإِنَّ الْكَذِبَ يَهْدِي إِلَى الْفُجُورِ وَإِنَّ الْفُجُورَ يَهْدِي إِلَى النَّارِ، وَلاَ يَزَالُ الْعَبْدُ يَكْذِبُ وَيَتَحَرَّى الْكَذِبَ حَتَّى يُكْتَبَ عِنْدَ اللهِ كَذَّاباً

 

Iyyaka wal-kadhib, fa’innal-kadhiba yahdi ilal-fujur. Wa innal-fujura yahdi ilan-nar. Wala yazalul-^abdu yakdhibu wa yataharral-khadhiba hatta yuktaba ^indallahi kadhdhaba.

Which means: “Do not ever lie, because lying leads to very abhorrent sins, and those in turn lead to Hellfire. One keeps on lying and seeks to do that until one is recorded as a liar in some books of Allah.” (Narrated by Ibn Majah.)

 

There are many things that are among the sins of the tongue and fall under the category of lying. They include: swearing by Allah to a lie, false testimony, and falsely attributing something to Allah and His Prophet.

 

1-    Swearing by Allah to a Lie: It is one of the major sins. It is for one to swear by Allah to something that is opposite to the truth. An example is if one says, “By Allah, I did such and such” while knowing that one did not do that action. Similarly, if one says, “By Allah I did not do such and such” when one has done it. This is considered using God’s name in vain, which indicates falling short of glorifying Allah properly.

 

2-    False testimony: This is one of the enormous sins. An example is for one to testify in front of a judge that someone stole something while one knows that it did not happen.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

عَدَلَتْ شَهَادَةُ الزُّورِ الإِشْرَاكَ بِاللهِ

^Adalat shahadatuz-zuril-ishraka billah.

Which means: “False testimony is similar to claiming that Allah has partners.” (Related by al-Bayhaqiyy.)

 

In this hadith the Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, likened the false testimony to blasphemy, because both are serious sins. This hadith does not mean that the one who testifies falsely is no longer a Muslim. Rather, it means that such a person is a major sinner.

 

3-    Falsely attributing something to Allah and to His Prophet: This is also among the major sins.

 

Allah, ta^ala, said in the Qur’an:

وَيَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ تَرَى الَّذِينَ كَذَبُواْ عَلَى اللَّهِ وُجُوهُهُم مُّسْوَدَّةٌ

Wa yawmal-qiyamati tara-lladhina kadhabu ^alallahi wujuhuhum muswaddah.

Ayah 60 of Suratuz-Zumar means: {On the Day of Judgment, those who lied about Allah will have black faces [out of shame].}

 

An example of this lying is if someone says: Allah created in such and such a direction a mountain of gold. Although we know that Allah has the power to create it, if this mountain does not exist, this person's claim is contrary to reality.

 

Falsely attributing something to the Prophet is when someone lies and says that the Prophet said a statement that he did not say.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

إِنَّ كَذِباً عَلَيَّ لَيْسَ كَكَذِبٍ عَلَى أَحَدٍ، فَمَنْ كَذَبَ عَلَيَّ مُتَعَمِّداً فَلْيَتَبَوَّأْ مَقْعَدَهُ مِنَ النَّارِ

 

Inna kadhiban ^alayya laysa ka-kadhibin ^ala ahad. Faman kadhaba ^alayya muta^ammidan fal-yatabawwa’ maq^adahu minan-nar.

Which means: “Falsely attributing something to me is not like falsely attributing something to anyone else. Let the one who knowingly lies about me take a seat in Hellfire.” (Related by Muslim.)

 

Attributing a false matter to Allah may result in blasphemy, like if one claims that Allah made something halal when one knows that it is haram, or vice versa.

 


 

Questions:

1.                 What is lying?

2.                 Give a hadith that indicates that lying is still unlawful, whether said seriously or jokingly?

3.                 What does swearing by Allah to a lie mean?

4.                 What is meant by the false testimony? Give an example.

5.                 To what did the Prophet liken the false testimony? Give a hadith and explain its meaning.

6.                 Give an example of falsely attributing something to Allah. State the proof from the Qur’an that it is unlawful.

7.                 Give a hadith that indicates that falsely attributing something to the Prophet is unlawful.


Lesson 7
The Merit of Knowledge and Abiding By It


 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

طَلَبُ الْعِلْمِ فَرِيضَةٌ عَلَى كُلِّ مُسْلِمٍ

 

Talabul-^ilmi faridatun ^ala kulli Muslim.

Which means: “Seeking the [obligatory] religious knowledge is an obligation upon every Muslim.” (Related by al-Bayhaqiyy.)

Learning the Religious knowledge is among the best things that one may spend one’s time doing. The safe path that protects a person and his family from Hellfire is by learning the Islamic knowledge, i.e., learning what Allah made obligatory upon us and learning what Allah ordered us to avoid.

 

Allah, ta^ala, said in the Qur’an:

يَرْفَعِ اللَّهُ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا مِنكُمْ وَالَّذِينَ أُوتُوا الْعِلْمَ دَرَجَاتٍ 

Yarfa^illahu-lladhina amanu minkum walladhina utul-^ilma darajat.

Ayah 11 of Suratul-Mujadalah means: {Allah raises to higher ranks the believers and those of (Islamic) knowledge.}

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

مَنْ يُرِدِ اللهُ بِهِ خَيْراً يُفَقِّهْهُ فِي الدِّينِ

 

May yuridillahu bihi kayray-yufaqqihhu fid-din.

Which means: “The one for whom Allah willed goodness, Allah guides him to become a knowledgeable person in the Religion.” (Narrated by al-Bukhariyy.)

 

Knowledge and good manners: One will not become pious except by learning and practicing that which one learned. This means that one must learn the matters of the Religion and follow what one learned. The one who does this is the person who knows how to use one’s heart and other organs to obey Allah. By this, one will have good manners. One uses one’s hearing to obtain the knowledge, and one’s tongue to review and teach what one has learned.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

بَلِّغُوا عَنِّي وَلَوْ آيَةً

Ballighu ^anni walaw-ayah.

Which means: “Convey from me, even if it was one verse.” (Narrated by al-Bukhariyy.)

 

The sins of the tongue: Among what one must avoid are the sins of the tongue. Among the sins of the tongue are giving an Islamic judgment without knowledge, refusing to teach the Islamic obligatory knowledge while there is a student who wishes to acquire it, and refraining from ordering with ma^ruf (obligations) and forbidding munkar (prohibitions).

 

1-            Giving judgment without knowledge: It is sinful for one to give judgments in the matters of the Religion out of one’s own opinion. This harms the one who does it. For example if someone says: “Such and such is allowed or not allowed,” while one does not know the Islamic judgment of whether it is allowed or not, one commits a major sin.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

مَنْ أَفْتَى بِغَيْرِ عِلْم ٍ فَعَلَيْهِ لَعَنَتةُ اللهِ وَالْمَلاَئِكَةِ وَالنَّاسِ أَجْمَعِين

 

Man afta bighayri ^ilmin fa^alayhi la^natullahi wal-mala’ikati wan-nasi ajma^in.

Which means: “Let the damnation of Allah, the angels, and all the people be on the one who gives an Islamic judgment without knowledge.” (Related by As-Suyutiyy.)

 

2-            Refusing to teach the Islamic obligatory knowledge while someone wishes to acquire it: This is one of the sins of the tongue. An example of it is refusing (without a religious excuse) to teach the personal obligatory knowledge to a person who needs to learn it.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

مَنْ سُئِلَ عَنْ عِلْمٍ فَكَتَمَهُ أُلْجِمَ يَوْمَ القِيَامَةِ بِلِجَامٍ مَنْ نَارٍ

 

Man su’ila ^an ^ilmin fakatamahu uljima yawmal-qiyamati bilijamim min-Nar.

Which means: “The one who is asked to teach the religious [obligatory] knowledge and refrains from it (with no excuse) will be bridled with a reign of fire on the Day of Judgment.” (Related by Ibn Majah, al-Hakim, Ibn Hibban.)

 

3-            Refraining from ordering with ma^ruf (obligations) and forbidding munkar (prohibitions): This is among the sins of the tongue only if one is able. So, if someone sees another person, who listens to advice, leaving out the prayer, one is obligated to order him to pray.


 

Questions:

1.                 State a hadith from the Prophet that encourages acquiring the knowledge.

2.                 What is the safe way to protect oneself and one's family from Hellfire?

3.                 Give an ayah and a saying of the Prophet (hadith) that tell about the merit of knowledge.

4.                 Give a hadith that requires one to teach the knowledge. Who related it?

5.                 List some of the sins of the tongue.

6.                 State a hadith prohibiting to give judgments without knowledge.

7.                 State a hadith that prohibits refusing to teach the knowledge.

 


Lesson 8
The Prohibited Games and Depicting that Which Has a Soul


 

Among the sins of the hand is playing the many unlawful games. Among them are: dice, cards, and the like. These games are prohibited because they rely on guessing, not on thinking and calculating.

 

These prohibited games result in fights among people and other evil things.

 

Throwing Dice: The die is also called nardashir as it was made for the first Persian king.

 

The Prophet, sallallahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said:

مَنْ لَعِبَ بِالنَّرْدَشِيرِ فَكَأَنَّمَا غَمَسَ يَدَهُ فِي لَحْمِ خِنْزِيرٍ وَدَمِهِ

 

Man la^iba bin-Nardashiri faka’annama ghamasa yadahu fi lahmi khinziriw wadamih.

Which means: “The one who plays with dice is similar to the one who submerges his hand in the flesh and blood of a pig.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah.)

 

Playing Cards: Playing cards is forbidden just like playing with dice, because every game that is based on guessing (chance), but not on calculation and thinking, is haram.

 

Dominoes: It is among the games that are played by guessing and chance.

 

Note: When the above-mentioned games are played where money will be lost, playing them becomes gambling, which is among the major sins.

 

Chess: It is not like dice, because its basis is calculation and thinking before moving. What was narrated from the Prophet dispraising chess is not confirmed. This game was made to help in learning strategies, and good management. It is also helpful with preparing for war and mathematical calculations. Still it is disliked to play it.

 

To depict that which has a soul: Among the sins of the hands is to depict that which has a soul, whether it is sculptured, carved in a ceiling or a wall, drawn on a paper, woven in a cloth, or otherwise. Exempted from this are the little girls’ baby dolls. This prohibition stands as long as the living being is depicted in a way that the depicted would live if it were real. An example is a full-body drawing or sculpture of an animal.

Questions:

1.                 List some of the prohibited games.

2.                 Why were these games prohibited?

3.                 What is nardashir? What is the proof that it is prohibited?

4.                 Why is it prohibited to play with cards?

5.                 What is the judgment of playing chess? For what was it made?

6.                 What is the judgment about depicting that which has a soul? What is exempted from it?


Lesson 9